Dating Sabbatical

A radical new counselling approach to finding a real love of self.

The author gave up dates and sex for a year and wrote a blog about her experiences. 

“If I had known how easy love can be, I would have saved myself a lot of heartbreak. For a long time, I didn’t understand why I could not attain happiness in a relationship. Then I recognised that aside from dating there is another way to find the right partner: the way to yourself. Consequently, I gave up men and sex for a year and during this dating sabbatical, I discovered what was standing between me and a happy relationship. I now want to tell others about my journey and my findings.” Lena Lamberti’s self-test shows how it can work: identificational self-help for women who struggle with a fear of commitment when looking for Mr Right.